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Should I be concerned by these pics?  Is she cheating on me?

Hell Yeah!  Even though you aren't living with her anymore, you're both still legally married!
Yes, she obviously has no intention of getting back with you EVER!
No, let her do whatever she wants, she'll come back to you in the END!
No, she's just having some fun on her Birthday!

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Re: What do you think??
« Reply #15 on: March 05, 2010, 11:02:19 AM »
Well, this is posted in a public forum, so she could see for herself. Would you like this to be moved to a team or friend chat? None the less we won't give "you" information you should already know XD

As for your sister's advice, it is EXACTLY what I told you! lol

Like I said, stop being so nice to her.
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Re: What do you think??
« Reply #16 on: March 05, 2010, 11:25:21 AM »
Well, this is posted in a public forum, so she could see for herself. Would you like this to be moved to a team or friend chat? None the less we won't give "you" information you should already know XD

As for your sister's advice, it is EXACTLY what I told you! lol

Like I said, stop being so nice to her.

No, it's all good, just leave it here.  If she sees it, she sees it.  I don't even care to tell you the truth.  Since if she sees it, than it could be taken that she invaded my privacy also.  Even if this forum is public, she doesn't have any business here, unless she is trying to check up on me.  Thus invading my privacy as well.

I would really prefer an experienced persons input on this matter as it is why I posted it up to begin with.

Really, Solo, as a friend: Go away from home and have good times with your friends. Have fun, get drunk, run naked on the streets. But pass some time withouth that in your mind.
A separation isn't good, and when you have children involved it worst. However, the best advice I can give to you is: Have some fun and met some new people.

When I broke up my marriage, that save my sanity.

If you're my neighbour, Tonight you will be out of home and get a big drunk, really.

PS: sorry for the typos, I'm at Uni and this keyboard sucks -.-

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Well I wish I was your neighbor Costa!  Don't have the money to get drunk.  If I did, I'd buy a computer and finish up coding for Dream Portal, since the cost of beer to get drunk is about the same price for a computer (approx. $160.00).  I suppose a bottle of whiskey would do it, but I'm not like you Costa, not sure if anyone is.  You're unique bro!!

They seem like a few friends just having a good time.

It's very common for drunk girlfriends to pretend kissing each other. So looking at those pictures, I see nothing wrong.
That chat conversation however, is another story.

Yeah, I suppose your right about the pics.  Just having a good time.  I just can't believe that she didn't tell me about that guy John and lied to me saying it was someone from her work.  I wonder if they have continued their relationship even further?  I wonder if they are still seeing each other?  And a story that she wrote in great detail in her account, that I read, was her being with a police officer.  The strange this is, every story that she writes has truth to it.  She wrote a story when she was pregnant with Alisa.  Every story reflects what is going on in her life.  And I remember one night that she left, telling me that she was going to the bar with her friends, but instead walked away from the block on foot.  In her story, she said that she didn't want the Police Officer picking her up at the house, so she walked a few blocks to his car and they drove off and shared a wonderful night together.  Than he dropped her off a few blocks away from the house, and she continued home on foot.

And another thing, she went out 1 night, with her friend, Susan (at around 11pm), while I babysitted Susan's daughter and Alisa (she told me that she'd be back at around 2am or so) and spent the whole night out.  I called Ksenia at around 7:30am, some guy answered Ksenia's cell phone and didn't know where Ksenia was.  Susan and Ksenia showed up at around 9am.  After talking with this to Ksenia, she made me feel like a stalker, like there was something wrong with me, and that I embarrassed her in front of her friend, Susan.  Ksenia said that she left her cell in her pocket book at the bar and stayed up all night dancing and stuff.  My sister and her husband came by that day and I told them what happened, and she said that I should just trust her.  A big argument came about between my sis and I and I told her to leave.  Me and my sis didn't talk for awhile after that.  So, in short, I was right!  She was with someone else that night for sure!  I knew it, though she denied it all, right in front of me.  Lying right to my face.

I just can't get over how a woman, I completely trusted with all of my heart and soul, could be soooo damn EVIL!  Especially the woman I am married to!  I always say, do unto others as you would like them to do to you.  But I'm not so sure that that phrase is even valid in this sense.  I want so much to make her hurt like I do, but than I'm also still in love with her (as stupid as that sounds)!
« Last Edit: March 05, 2010, 11:31:03 AM by SoLoGHoST »

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Re: What do you think??
« Reply #17 on: March 05, 2010, 12:00:13 PM »
Well solomon, the pictures are in a computer in which you have an administrative account on. So technically you could use this to prevent any invasion of privacy accusations. As for her checking up on you here, this is a public board, so no matter what the motive for her logging on, it would not be considered an invasion of privacy either. Although she would have a better case.
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